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@healwithfunke: 31 viral TikToks

31 viral TikToks by @healwithfunke (best x144), with each video's hook, views and viral factor. See which ideas worked.

The cover image features a close-up shot of a Black, dark-haired woman looking directly at the camera, centered in the frame. She has full lips and a neutral expression, with subtle makeup including blush and eyeshadow. Below her, a white rectangular box contains text in a sans-serif font, describing a strategy for self-prioritization. The background appears to be a blurred indoor setting with hints of gold and neutral tones.

x5.89

71,147 views

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A selfie-style shot featuring a Black woman looking towards the camera with a serious expression. Her hand is up near one ear, and she wears a dark top. A white text box overlays the lower portion of the image, filled with dark text.

x7.76

93,687 views

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A woman with dark, wavy hair and makeup looks directly at the camera. In the background, there are blurred elements that suggest an outdoor setting. Overlayed with a white rectangular box containing text is about moving on after a breakup.

x2.63

31,765 views

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A woman with dark hair and makeup is centered in the frame, looking directly at the camera with a serious expression. A white rectangular text overlay is at the bottom, with the woman’s image filling the background. The natural light and blurred background suggest an indoor restaurant or cafe setting.

x3.99

48,142 views

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A selfie-style video featuring a dark-skinned woman with long, wavy brown hair. She is positioned inside a car, with the car's interior visible as a blurred background. The woman is looking directly at the camera with a neutral expression, and a text overlay is positioned near the bottom of the frame; the text appears in a white box with rounded edges.

x48.9

590,984 views

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A medium close-up shot inside a car. A woman with brown hair and skin is holding a lip product up to her lips. She is wearing a white sweater. Overlayed text appears at the bottom of the frame.

x2.14

25,875 views

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A selfie-style video cover image featuring a Black woman with dark hair and sunglasses perched atop her head. The background has a brick wall. A text overlay at the bottom displays a message.

x144

1,741,597 views

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A selfie-style image featuring a woman in a car, with text overlaid on the bottom. She has long, dark, wavy hair, and sunglasses perched on her head. Her expression is serious, with a touch of pensiveness. The background suggests a car interior, and her hand is raised near her forehead. The image is well-lit, focusing on her face and the text overlay.

x2.65

32,027 views

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A medium shot focuses on a Black woman with dark, wavy hair and makeup, looking directly at the camera. She is wearing a light-colored top with a delicate pattern. Behind her, an escalator leads up, and faint figures of people are visible. A text overlay in a white box occupies the lower portion of the frame, presenting a statement about avoidant behavior in relationships.

x33.5

404,294 views

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A woman with dark skin wears large, dark sunglasses and is outside with greenery behind her. She is holding her hand up to her forehead. A text overlay appears on her lower face, in a rounded white text block.

x3.69

44,589 views

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A selfie-style shot of a woman, with a text overlay in a box at the bottom. She has dark hair, which is pulled back on the sides, and is wearing sunglasses. She appears to be indoors as the window, side mirror, and interior of the car are visible in the background. The background is out of focus behind the woman. She has her hand up to her head, and has a serious/sad expression.

x4.63

52,962 views

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A woman with long, wavy black hair is centered in the frame, looking towards the camera. She has a soft, warm skin tone, with a hint of lip gloss. She is set against a lush green background with a large stone building. There's text overlaid at the bottom of the image.

x5.59

63,956 views

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A close-up shot of a Black woman with long, dark hair, looking directly at the camera with a neutral expression. A white text overlay containing a message about breakups and attachment styles is positioned over her face. The background is slightly blurred, with hints of a light green and beige.

x72.9

833,800 views

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A close-up shot of a woman with long, black wavy hair. She is looking towards the camera and slightly off to the side, with a soft, contemplative expression. She has dark eyebrows, light eye makeup, and a subtle blush on her cheeks. Her lips are a glossy pink. She is wearing a yellow top and a delicate necklace with a small pendant. The background is blurred, showing greenery and a stone wall.

x2.41

18,116 views

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A woman is applying lip gloss while looking at the camera. A text bubble with text is overlaid on the lower portion of the image. The woman has dark hair, fair skin, and is wearing a floral top.

x9.37

54,322 views

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A woman with long, dark hair and a gold necklace is looking directly at the camera. The background is blurred, suggesting the interior of a vehicle, with a cityscape visible outside.

x16.1

106,992 views

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The cover image features a woman with long, dark hair and visible makeup, likely filming in natural light. She's positioned from the mid-chest up, with a neutral background. White text overlays are arranged in a grid, with questions related to avoidant attachment visible.

x3.86

25,561 views

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A well-lit selfie featuring a woman with long, dark hair positioned in a car. The background is blurred, highlighting only the woman and the text overlays placed above. The text box from a commenter provides the context.

x2.16

14,342 views

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A scenic image of a grassy field with green foliage and a tree on the right side. Text overlays at the top and the bottom.

x8.70

57,652 views

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A woman with long dark hair and a white shirt is centered in a selfie-style shot. The background includes greenery and glimpses of a vehicle. Overlayed text is visible near the bottom of the frame.

x2.04

13,037 views

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A selfie-style video taken from inside a car. The foreground shows a woman with long, dark hair and a serious expression. Her skin is smooth, and she appears to be looking directly at the camera. She is wearing a pink top. Behind her, the interior of the car is visible. There is text overlaid on the image in a white box, which seems to be the main focus of the video.

x43.0

526,986 views

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The image shows a coastal scene with a beach filled with pebbles. Above, there is a cloudy blue sky. A white text box is overlaid on the image containing the question: "How does a secure person react when an avoidant disappears for weeks without communicating..."

x4.86

59,587 views

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An indoor shot of a laser tag arena, with neon blue and green lighting illuminating walls and structures. A white text overlay reads "So you want closure from your avoidant ex..."

x5.06

30,674 views

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A scenic beach landscape with a blue sky filled with clouds. The shore is covered in pebbles, and there's a series of wooden posts in the water. The sky takes up about half the image, and the water and beach occupy the rest. A white text overlay appears in the center of the image.

x14.5

87,587 views

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A selfie-style shot from inside a car. The main subject is a woman with dark, wavy hair and a serious expression. She's wearing a black top, and a delicate gold necklace with a pendant is visible. The background shows car headrests. Text overlayed on the image reads 'You can't block an avoidant the first time they discard you.'

x3.89

23,549 views

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A selfie-style shot of a woman seated in a car. She has long, dark hair and is looking towards the camera with a neutral expression. The image is framed from the chest up, with the car's interior visible in the background, including the headrest of the car seat providing a backdrop. A text overlay appears at the bottom, describing a relationship scenario. The lighting is natural, and the overall composition is simple.

x7.57

45,895 views

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A close-up shot of a dark-skinned woman looking directly at the camera. She has long, dark hair and is wearing a black frame sunglasses on her head. A text overlay sits in front of her.

x76.7

464,581 views

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A serene landscape with a body of water in the foreground under an overcast sky. A text overlay in a white rounded rectangle is placed on the water's surface.

x46.4

280,953 views

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A daytime shot featuring a large, modern building behind a body of water and grassy foreground. The building is primarily glass and steel with a complex grid-like structure. In the foreground, there's a grassy area leading up to the water's edge. A single goose stands on the grass, and a white rectangle is positioned in front of the goose. Overcast sky.

x3.73

22,612 views

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The image captures an interior setting, likely a restaurant or hotel. The composition is characterized by a warm color palette dominated by orange and brown hues. The floors are made of wood with a distinct chevron pattern, and one side features vertical wooden panels. The image also includes a glimpse of a seating area and some plants. A white rectangular text overlay with black text that reads "Books that have helped me on my journey from insecure to secure attachment" is placed above the scene.

x11.6

139,967 views

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The cover image showcases a serene beach scene under a bright blue sky dotted with a few white clouds. The ocean stretches out, meeting the sky at the horizon. Gentle waves lap at the sandy shore. A rectangular text overlay with rounded corners, reading "Rating things avoidants say during a break up" spans the center of the image, creating a clear focus.

x104

1,262,947 views

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Top hooks from @healwithfunke

  1. The song that plays in my head when my avoidant says he needs a break after the most romantic weekend together

    1.7M views · viral factor x144

  2. Rating things avoidants say during a break up

    1.2M views · viral factor x104

  3. I wish more people understood that the avoidant discard is a blessing in disguise. You cannot have a peaceful relationship with someone who's at war with themselves. The avoidant removes themselves from your life to set you free from a lifetime of breadcrumbs and a partnership that will forever feel like a situationship.

    464K views · viral factor x76.7

  4. If you're wondering whether your avoidant ex ever loved you, yes they did. If you're wondering if they ever saw a future with you, yes they did. But, because their shame was louder than their love for you, letting you go felt easier than working through the shame. And, nothing you could have said or done would have changed the outcome.

    833K views · viral factor x72.9

  5. Maturing is realising that you don't even like that avoidant man you claim to be in love with. You're obsessed with idea of being chosen by him. If he stopped running away and you had to face the reality of him, not the idealised version of him you created, you'd realise that he's actually not that special and you probably don't want him.

    590K views · viral factor x48.9

  6. When an avoidant says 'I can't give you what you need', they truly mean it. But, here's what they don't tell you...

    280K views · viral factor x46.4

  7. Sorry to break it to you but the avoidant man who sends you into an anxious spiral every week is not your soulmate. Your soulmate is probably somewhere praying you get released from that trauma bond so they can find you and love you right.

    526K views · viral factor x43.0

  8. No one is busier than an avoidant who's deactivating from you. All of a sudden, they're starting new hobbies and making new friends. The ex they said was incompatible suddenly becomes the one that got away and now they can't stop thinking about them.

    404K views · viral factor x33.5

  9. They always come back

    106K views · viral factor x16.1

  10. How a secure person reacts to avoidant push/pull behaviours...

    87K views · viral factor x14.5

Niches @healwithfunke posts in

Formats @healwithfunke uses

@healwithfunke by the numbers

The library has 31 viral TikToks from @healwithfunke, with 7.2M views in all. The median video has 57K views, and the most viral reached a viral factor of x144. The biggest niche is Relationships, with 28 videos. Viral factor compares a video's views with its account's usual views: x10 means ten times the views that creator normally gets.

Viral videos in the library
31
Platform
TikTok only
Total views
7.2M (7,270,185)
Median views per video
57K
Median viral factor
x5.89
Highest viral factor
x144

These figures cover all 31 videos in this list, not only the cards above.

Questions about @healwithfunke

What video formats does @healwithfunke use?

In @healwithfunke's videos in the library, the most used formats are Selfie with Background (12 videos), Face Close-Up (10) and Story in slideshow (2).

Which @healwithfunke hooks went most viral?

The most viral hook in @healwithfunke's videos in the library is “The song that plays in my head when my avoidant says he needs a break after the most romantic weekend together” (viral factor x144, 1.7M views), followed by “Rating things avoidants say during a break up” (x104). Every hook on this page links to its video.

How many views do @healwithfunke's videos get?

Across 31 videos, the median is 57K views, and together they have 7.2M views. The median viral factor is x5.89: the typical video got 5.89 times its creator's usual views.