If you're wondering whether your avoidant ex ever loved you, yes they did. If you're wondering if they ever saw a future with you, yes they did. But, because their shame was louder than their love for you, letting you go felt easier than working through the shame. And, nothing you could have said or done would have changed the outcome.

How it compares

Viral factor

x72.9: about 72.9 times the views @healwithfunke usually gets. Viral factor divides a video's views by its account's usual views, so it measures how far the video beat its creator's normal reach, whatever the size of the account.

Views

833,800 views.

Engagement

12.1% engagement rate. 85,479 likes, 788 comments, 2,827 shares, 12,133 saves.

Hook

“If you're wondering whether your avoidant ex ever loved you, yes they did. If you're wondering if they ever saw a future with you, yes they did. But, because their shame was louder than their love for you, letting you go felt easier than working through the shame. And, nothing you could have said or done would have changed the outcome.”: the opening line, the part that has to stop the scroll.

Filed under

niche: Relationships; format: Face Close-Up.