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@anxiouslyalej: 34 viral TikToks

34 viral TikToks by @anxiouslyalej (best x26.1), with each video's hook, views and viral factor. See which ideas worked.

The image is a selfie-style shot featuring a woman from the chest up. She has dark hair, fair skin, and light makeup including blush and lip color. She's wearing a black off-the-shoulder top and a gold necklace with a heart pendant. The background appears to be a plain wall. The text overlay in the image states: "what ACTUALLY makes avoidants crash out".

x4.96

1,011,515 views

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A woman with long, dark wavy hair is centered in the frame, looking directly at the camera with a slight smile. She's wearing a black collared shirt with the logo of a horse and rider.

x6.25

1,276,049 views

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A woman looks into the camera with a soft smile. Overlaid on the image is white sans-serif text, which appears to be a quote.

x6.52

1,330,779 views

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The cover image is a selfie-style shot featuring a woman with dark hair and a black top, centered in the frame. The text overlay reads "what silence does to a man," positioned at the top. The woman is looking towards the camera with her mouth slightly open, suggesting she's speaking. The background appears to be a neutral, possibly office-like environment lit with overhead lighting.

x11.5

2,655,220 views

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A woman with long brown hair is positioned in front of a soft-lit interior. Text overlay indicates the video's subject. She's wearing a black button-down shirt.

x21.8

5,036,559 views

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A woman with long, dark hair is centered in a video frame. Her face is mostly visible, with a slight smile and a subtle red lipstick. She's wearing a black top, and the background features an office setting. Text above the woman reads 'why she's never taken for granted.'

x4.49

1,038,022 views

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A medium shot of a woman with long, dark hair looking directly at the camera. She is wearing a black sweater, and the background shows a clear blue sky through what appears to be a window in a high-rise building.

x26.1

6,023,763 views

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The cover image is a selfie-style shot featuring a woman with dark hair and fair skin against a nondescript background. Text overlayed at the top reads, "men fall in love in a woman's absence." The woman's expression is neutral, with her mouth slightly open, suggesting she may be speaking.

x7.51

1,735,107 views

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A woman with dark hair and a black top is centered in the frame. The text overlay says 'when a man hates you'. The background suggests an office or indoor setting.

x8.05

2,918,942 views

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A woman with dark hair and fair skin is centered in a selfie-style shot. She is wearing a black top. The background is a nondescript office setting with neutral walls and some visible office furniture. The image has soft lighting.

x2.99

777,378 views

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A woman with long dark hair is seated, looking directly at the camera. The background suggests an office setting. Above her head, a text overlay reads "the woman who got away will always get more love".

x3.15

819,084 views

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The cover image is a medium shot of a woman with dark hair and a black button-down shirt. The text overlay says, "how to actually handle disrespect." The woman is looking slightly to the left with a neutral expression. The background is plain, with a hint of what appears to be a window, and some ceiling lights. She has a gold necklace with a pendant.

x6.07

1,768,129 views

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A woman with long, dark hair is centered in the frame, facing the camera. She has a neutral expression. Text overlayed at the top reads, 'why he'll regret losing you forever'. The background is a plain grey wall.

x3.09

901,252 views

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A woman with long dark hair facing the camera making a speech. There is text overlayed at the top that reads, "when a man fumbles a good woman". She is wearing a black top and a necklace with a green stone pendant.

x2.70

787,838 views

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A medium shot of a woman with long, dark hair and a black top, facing the camera slightly. She has a necklace with a pendant. The background shows a blurred office-like setting.

x2.37

690,832 views

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A woman with dark hair and a black top looks toward the camera with a slight smile. Text overlayed on the image reads "things men do to make you chase them". The background is a plain, light-colored wall.

x7.17

1,288,060 views

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A woman with long, dark hair wearing a black top is centered in the frame, looking towards the camera with a slight smile and open mouth as if speaking. Above her head, white text overlays read, 'men know early. and move accordingly.' The background is a solid, nondescript brownish-yellow.

x2.17

347,056 views

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The cover image shows a woman in a close-up shot, slightly angled towards us. She has dark, wavy hair and is wearing a black tank top. The background appears to be a plain, light gray wall. Above her head, white text reads, 'how to actually handle disrespect'. She has a neutral expression.

x2.46

394,811 views

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A selfie-style shot where the person is in the center frame, looking at the camera with a neutral expression. The individual has long dark hair, soft makeup with a focus on the lips, and is wearing a light-colored jacket. The background is a solid, muted yellow color. Text overlayed at the top reads 'the power of your absence'.

x2.30

368,721 views

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A woman with long, dark hair is centered in the frame, looking directly at the camera. She wears a light-colored blazer over a dark top. The background is a plain, neutral gray. The text overlay reads 'men do not play hard to get'.

x2.29

399,712 views

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A woman with long dark hair and a black top is looking at the camera and smiling. The background is a plain grey wall. White text overlay at the top says 'a man will always bring you to his level'.

x2.17

378,977 views

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A woman with long dark hair and a beige blazer gestures with her hands while speaking, with text overlaying the top that says, "he won't commit. but he won't let you go."

x6.93

1,381,004 views

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A woman with dark hair and a black top looks directly at the camera against a plain background. The overlay text at the top says, 'men do not change from conversations.'

x11.4

2,273,306 views

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A woman with long dark hair and a cream-colored blazer looks towards the camera, with text overlaid at the top.

x2.54

742,819 views

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A woman with long dark hair and a light-colored blazer looks directly at the camera. Text appears above her head.

x5.63

1,646,910 views

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A woman in a black top is centered in the frame addressing the camera, with text overlayed at the top. She has dark hair, and is wearing a delicate necklace. Her skin has a pink flush on her cheeks, suggesting makeup. The background is plain, and the lighting is even.

x3.38

989,373 views

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A woman with long dark hair and a green shirt is looking at the camera and talking. Above her head is overlay text in white, centered at the top.

x6.48

1,894,984 views

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A selfie-style shot featuring a woman with long, dark hair and a soft, neutral background. She is positioned with her upper body visible and is wearing a light-colored top, The text overlay at the top says: "let him suffer."

x12.6

3,676,379 views

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A woman with long dark hair, fair skin, and wearing a light colored top is looking directly at the camera. The background is a plain, light gray wall, and overlaid text appears at the top.

x20.8

7,372,103 views

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A woman with dark hair and fair skin is centered in the frame, speaking to the camera. Above her head, text reads: 'men move on fast women never come back'. She wears a black jacket with a white trim and gold buttons. The background is a blurred, light gray wall.

x2.42

1,329,474 views

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A woman with long dark hair, wearing a white sweater vest, is looking at the camera and speaking. Text overlay reads "these women actually win in relationships". The background is a solid gray.

x2.17

1,187,454 views

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A woman with dark hair and a cream-colored blazer is centered in a close-up headshot. Text overlays the top, and a gray wall provides the background.

x4.64

2,542,055 views

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Top hooks from @anxiouslyalej

  1. how to ACTUALLY bruise a man’s ego

    6M views · viral factor x26.1

  2. what silence does to a man

    5M views · viral factor x21.8

  3. why men respect her and not you...

    7.3M views · viral factor x20.8

  4. let him suffer

    3.6M views · viral factor x12.6

  5. men do not change from conversations

    2.2M views · viral factor x11.4

  6. when a man hates you

    2.9M views · viral factor x8.05

  7. men fall in love in a woman's absence.

    1.7M views · viral factor x7.51

  8. things men do to make you chase them

    1.2M views · viral factor x7.17

  9. he won't commit. but he won't let you go.

    1.3M views · viral factor x6.93

  10. what he limits in you, he desires in someone else.

    1.3M views · viral factor x6.52

Niches @anxiouslyalej posts in

Formats @anxiouslyalej uses

@anxiouslyalej by the numbers

The library has 34 viral TikToks from @anxiouslyalej, with 61M views in all. The median video has 1.3M views, and the most viral reached a viral factor of x26.1. The biggest niche is Relationships, with 33 videos. Viral factor compares a video's views with its account's usual views: x10 means ten times the views that creator normally gets.

Viral videos in the library
34
Platform
TikTok only
Total views
61M (61,349,801)
Median views per video
1.3M
Median viral factor
x4.56
Highest viral factor
x26.1

These figures cover all 34 videos in this list, not only the cards above.

Questions about @anxiouslyalej

What video formats does @anxiouslyalej use?

In @anxiouslyalej's videos in the library, the most used formats are Face Close-Up (19 videos) and Selfie with Background (11).

Which @anxiouslyalej hooks went most viral?

The most viral hook in @anxiouslyalej's videos in the library is “how to ACTUALLY bruise a man’s ego” (viral factor x26.1, 6M views), followed by “what silence does to a man” (x21.8). Every hook on this page links to its video.

How many views do @anxiouslyalej's videos get?

Across 34 videos, the median is 1.3M views, and together they have 61M views. The median viral factor is x4.56: the typical video got 4.56 times its creator's usual views.