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Selfie with Background videos for Dating apps and brands

172 viral Selfie with Background videos from the Dating niche show what's working there, ranked by viral factor. Start with the hooks that opened them, then use them as references for Dating apps TikTok ads, Reels and UGC briefs.

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The most viral Selfie with Background videos in Dating

Ranked by viral factor, 172 videos. Viral factor is a video's views relative to its creator's usual views: x10 means ten times what the account normally gets.

The cover image shows a woman in a beige top and glasses, looking slightly off-camera. A white label is attached to her top. Text overlays describe the video's theme and pose.

x2,404

17,667,111 views

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A woman is sitting in a car, facing the camera. Text overlays at the top. She has long, wavy, light-brown hair and is wearing a black top. The car interior is visible with the steering wheel and a blurred background.

x933

2,806,463 views

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A woman with long blonde hair and a black cap is centered in the image. She is in a light blue shirt, with a white box containing black text at the bottom that reads, "Top 5 openers for dating apps instead of 'hey, how was your weekend?'"

x780

1,730,859 views

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A young man is sitting on a swing made of a giant donut, inside a room filled with pink balloons. The man is wearing a striped shirt and light-colored pants and sneakers, with his legs stretched out. On top of the image a text overlay describes the content.

x695

925,296 views

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A man with a beard and short dark hair is holding a silver iPhone in front of his face, smiling with his eyes closed. The background is out of focus with a purple hue.

x394

1,341,913 views

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The cover image shows a dark, possibly indoor, setting, presumably a gym. A rectangular text overlay is white and placed centrally at the top, reading 'Imagine a fitness class just for singles'. The background is mostly red, possibly lit with dim lights. The composition has several out-of-focus figures, implying an active scene like a workout class.

x353

792,601 views

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A person with sunglasses holds up a white board with text. The background is an outdoor public space.

x351

338,122 views

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A man wearing headphones and a microphone sits in front of a blurry background. The cover image includes a pink and white border. Below the man, colorful cards are displayed with names and location icons.

x350

3,508,745 views

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A selfie-style shot taken outdoors shows a young woman looking directly at the camera. She wears a blue baseball cap with red lettering, a black jacket, and earbuds. Text overlayed on the lower portion of the image reads: "questions to ask during the talking stage of dating to build a genuine connection pt.4". The background includes a brick sidewalk and some foliage.

x349

1,867,323 views

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A man in a neutral-toned long-sleeved shirt and dark blue trousers stands outside, leaning against a tree trunk while holding a bouquet of flowers. The image has a natural, softly lit quality, hinting at an outdoor setting. The caption in the image reads 'crossing my fingers that this all goes well'.

x299

1,201,665 views

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A young woman smiles and poses casually for the camera in a casual setting. She has long blonde hair and is wearing a black top against a warm interior background. Text overlays on the image promote a dating app.

x267

7,437,775 views

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A couple standing outside in front of a house and a car. The woman on the right is wearing sunglasses and a white coat. Text overlay reads: "Accidentally bumped into my husband on OkCupid."

x234

3,677,169 views

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A man with blond hair is on a phone call outdoors. Text overlayed on the image reads: 'Gustaf tries online dating', with a pink heart and a pencil-like object. He is wearing a black jacket and a light-colored shirt.

x182

649,513 views

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The image is taken from a POV perspective in a diner. The hands of two people are clasped in a handshake. The background shows a diner setting with workers and other customers in the background. The text overlay says 'POV: You met on a dating app for single parents'.

x156

1,078,496 views

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A low-angle shot of a man with headphones running or jumping, set against a clear blue sky. He wears a blue jacket and dark pants, and the word "Au" is superimposed.

x153

6,794,710 views

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A selfie-style video shows a man from the chest up, speaking directly at the camera. The background includes a beige wall and a wooden shelf at the top. Text overlayed at the bottom of the image reads: "Match would have your back she's a girl's girl".

x148

164,144 views

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A young woman takes a mirror selfie in what appears to be her bedroom. She is wearing a black tank top, blue jeans, and has long brown hair. Text overlay on the image reads, "Where are you finding all of these hot guys?"

x145

1,111,135 views

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A woman with blonde hair poses on a balcony, holding a drink. Text overlays indicate the video is about dating, specifically for women over 30 in Sweden.

x137

545,295 views

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The cover image shows a young Black man in front of a window with blinds. He is wearing a striped shirt. A blue rectangular text overlay that says 'MAKING MY ARCHER PROFILE' covers part of his chest. He has a nose ring and is smiling at the camera.

x127

31,868 views

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A woman with a bright pink bonnet and a gray sweatshirt is looking at the camera and pointing her finger. Her light-skin-tone face is center frame and she is smiling , lips slightly parted. She is wearing a light colored stud earring and has long, well manicured nails. Behind her is a plain neutral color wall.

x127

348,350 views

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A woman with light brown hair is smiling and pointing her index finger up. She is wearing a brown long-sleeved shirt and has subtle makeup on. The text overlay reads, 'It's OK to not know what you want'.

x123

1,938,658 views

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The cover image shows a crowded bar scene. The lighting is dim, and the primary colors are red and warm tones, suggesting a lively atmosphere. Several people are visible, with some in focus and others blurred, indicating movement and activity.

x117

263,525 views

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A woman is pointing up with both index fingers at two app logos while smiling. Above her, two app graphics are floating in place. The woman wears a black sweatshirt with a green graphic.

x108

990,188 views

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A softly lit interior scene featuring a couple embracing. The man and woman are close, face-to-face, appearing to be dancing. They're in a room with various elements suggesting a home setting: windows, a fireplace, and a sign that says BAD. The overall lighting is warm.

x108

746,279 views

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The cover image showcases a scenic landscape of the Scottish Highlands. The image is dominated by rolling green hills that lead up to a cloudy and overcast sky. A river carves its way through the valley, creating a winding path. The overlay text reads "Tinder IN Scotland".

x88.4

2,811,182 views

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An outdoor scene at night with a patio. Strings of lights are hanging above a crowd of people in a bar or restaurant setting. The main focus is on the people, who are sitting and standing, engaged in conversation. The lighting is warm, creating a lively and inviting ambiance.

x79.9

70,165 views

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A woman in a black jacket and jeans walks towards the camera with a black purse. The background shows an outdoor setting with concrete structures and greenery, with text on the bottom as well.

x64.0

2,827,662 views

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A cover image featuring two people, a woman facing away from the camera on the left side in a formal black dress with a low back. The man on the right is turned towards the woman gently touching his face, with a black and white top next to the woman.

x63.8

1,179,476 views

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A person in a room is taking a selfie in front of a mirror with a phone. The person is wearing a black top and black pants, and the background is blurry.

x62.2

1,812,800 views

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A selfie-style video cover image. The main subject is a young woman with long blonde hair, captured from the chest up. She is gazing directly at the camera with a subtle expression and a hint of a smile. The lighting appears to be soft, and the colors are natural, with a focus on the subject. Overlay text at the bottom of her chest provides more details about the context.

x61.1

1,747,805 views

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A young woman is positioned in front of a window, her gaze directed towards the camera. She wears a white, open-knit sweater over a black top, with hints of blue jeans visible below. Her dark hair cascades down her shoulders. Above her, text overlays are superimposed on a paneled ceiling background.

x56.9

1,513,131 views

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A grayscale selfie of a woman with blonde hair wearing a black top. Overlay text reading "Tinder IN Denmark" in a bold, stylized font. The background appears to be a simple room with a window or light source.

x52.9

4,485,211 views

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Selfie with Background in Dating by the numbers

Videos
172
Total views
150,229,038
Creators
47
Median viral factor
x6.27
TikTok / Instagram
60% / 40%
Added to the library
Jan 19, 2022 to Sep 21, 2025

Top Selfie with Background hooks in Dating

The opening lines of the most viral videos in this set, as a starting point for your own.

  1. who will get a match?

    17M views · viral factor x2,404

  2. I just left a first date before it started

    2.8M views · viral factor x933

  3. Top 5 openers for dating apps instead of “hey, how was your weekend?”

    1.7M views · viral factor x780

  4. Pov : tu as mixé Tinder et StockX et t'en a fait une app >>>

    925K views · viral factor x695

  5. Meeting guys on Archer:

    1.3M views · viral factor x394

  6. Imagine a fitness class just for singles

    792K views · viral factor x353

  7. Unusual questions for your next date

    338K views · viral factor x351

  8. questions to ask during the talking stage of dating to build a genuine connection pt.4

    1.8M views · viral factor x349

  9. crossing my fingers that this all goes well

    1.2M views · viral factor x299

  10. Si t'en as fini avec ton ex, télécharge Feels et trouve quelqu'un de mieux

    7.4M views · viral factor x267

Creators making Selfie with Background videos in Dating

The accounts with the most videos in this set, with their views and best viral factor.

  1. @rizzlinator (Instagram) · 32 videos · 16M views · best viral factor x52.9
  2. @tinderplanet (Instagram) · 19 videos · 5M views · best viral factor x137
  3. @luvjusdrinks (TikTok) · 11 videos · 9.7M views · best viral factor x14.8
  4. @theleagueapp (TikTok) · 7 videos · 41M views · best viral factor x16.8
  5. @thursdaydating (TikTok) · 7 videos · 1.1M views · best viral factor x353
  6. @hinge_messages (Instagram) · 7 videos · 175K views · best viral factor x5.33
  7. @thursdaycalgary (TikTok) · 6 videos · 92K views · best viral factor x31.3
  8. @feels_app_fr (TikTok) · 5 videos · 18M views · best viral factor x267