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@theiconnic

how to stop being defensive in your relationships (from a therapist)

over 1 year ago

Viral factor:x259
Views:393,289
Engagement:21.61%
Niche:Relationships
Format:Selfie with Background
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Viral factor
x259: about 259 times the views @theiconnic usually gets. Viral factor divides a video's views by its account's usual views, so it measures how far the video beat its creator's normal reach, whatever the size of the account.
Views
393,289 views.
Engagement
21.6% engagement rate. 50,719 likes, 128 comments, 7,641 shares, 26,510 saves.
Hook
“how to stop being defensive in your relationships (from a therapist)”: the opening line, the part that has to stop the scroll.
Filed under
niche: Relationships; format: Selfie with Background.
Against the Relationships niche
Against the Selfie with Background format
Views against the Relationships niche
Engagement against the Relationships niche

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