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Do you go after emotionally unavailable people? = You're chasing the feeling of being chosen, over your need for peace.

2 years ago

Viral factor:x29.0
Views:67,646
Engagement:7.62%
Niche:Motivation & Quotes
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Viral factor
x29.0: about 29.0 times the views @thesecurelove usually gets. Viral factor divides a video's views by its account's usual views, so it measures how far the video beat its creator's normal reach, whatever the size of the account.
Views
67,646 views.
Engagement
7.6% engagement rate. 3,211 likes, 5 comments, 218 shares, 1,724 saves.
Hook
“Do you go after emotionally unavailable people? = You're chasing the feeling of being chosen, over your need for peace.”: the opening line, the part that has to stop the scroll.
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