@thesecurelove: 9 viral TikToks

9 viral TikToks by @thesecurelove (best x67.8), with each video's hook, views and viral factor. See which ideas worked.

The image is a split screen, with a beige background. The top section shows a cartoon illustration of a woman with a ponytail, looking sad, and a speech bubble with the text 'WHAT YOU DID HURT ME.' The bottom section features another cartoon character, a man with a stylized look. He has an eye patch and is shrugging with the text 'INCONSIDERATE PARTNER', with an explanation, and the text 'BONUS: what you can say in response in the caption'. Below this is the text 'SECURE LOVE' and a blue arrow icon.

x2.66

6,204 views

The image has a minimalist design on a light beige background. At the top, simple black stick figures depict a couple; the woman is leaning with an exclamation point, while the man is walking through a doorway. Below is a bold statement in black text with yellow highlighting to emphasize certain words, and a 'SWIPE >>>' call to action at the bottom.

x2.41

5,609 views

A minimalist graphic featuring text on a white background. The text poses a question in bold, black font: 'Do you push your partner away during conflicts, even though you want them to stay?' Below this, a smaller line reads, 'HERE'S WHY AND WHAT YOU CAN DO TO CHANGE.' The words 'your partner' and 'HERE'S WHY AND WHAT YOU CAN DO TO CHANGE' are highlighted in bright yellow. A dark blue arrow pointing right, labeled 'SECURE LOVE' underneath, gives a sleek design.

x2.64

6,146 views

A vertical image with a light blue background. At the top, white text reads 'LESSONS THAT HELPED ME BECOME SECURE - EP.2'. The main content features questions and statements in a mix of white and highlighted yellow text, addressing anxious attachment. At the bottom, a dark blue arrow points right with the text 'SECURE LOVE.'.

x4.46

10,395 views

The image has a clean, minimalist layout with a cream-colored background. At the top, there is a text element that says “HEALING ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT”. In the center, a heading states: "Giving silent treatments". Below is a secondary heading that asks about the attempts to make your partner feel bad. Underneath that a rectangular image shows a couple on a couch. A woman in a red top and white blazer is looking pensively towards the camera, while a man is turned away from her with his arms folded. At the bottom, the Instagram handle of the creator.

x2.66

6,198 views

A vertical infographic with a white background, featuring thought bubbles with quotes about setting boundaries during arguments. A yellow banner with dark blue text displays the title. The overall layout is clean and concise.

x3.28

7,635 views

The cover image features a blue background with a central design of bold, white text that reads "DON'T SAY THESE ANXIOUS THINGS" with "& What to say instead" underneath in a smaller font. Above the text, there's a graphic of a head silhouette inside a red circle crossed out with a white line, indicating a prohibition on speaking. At the bottom, the handle @THESECURELOVE is written in small, grey letters.

x5.79

13,498 views

The image features a soft, gradient background of light beige and peach. Centered in the image is a block of text in a dark blue font asking, "Do you go after emotionally unavailable people?" Below the question is an equal sign, followed by the statement, "You're chasing the feeling of being chosen, over your need for peace." The text has a clean, modern aesthetic.

x29.0

67,646 views

The cover image features a pastel background. A small illustration of a woman with lines representing stress or worry is at the top. Below it, the question 'Do you get obsessed with someone who didn't want you or relationships that didn't work out?' is displayed in a clean font. Below this, it reads 'Here's a reasons why.' in smaller font. The creator's username is at the bottom.

x67.8

157,980 views

Top hooks from @thesecurelove

obsessed
157K views · viral factor x67.8
Do you go after emotionally unavailable people? = You're chasing the feeling of being chosen, over your need for peace.
67K views · viral factor x29.0
DON'T SAY THESE ANXIOUS THINGS
13K views · viral factor x5.79
Do you get overly anxious when your partner's mood seems 'off'? And feel like it's something to do with you, so you do whatever you can to fix it? HERE'S WHY AND WHAT YOU CAN DO TO CHANGE.
10K views · viral factor x4.46
Kind but Firm Ways To Set Boundaries During Arguments
7.6K views · viral factor x3.28
"WHAT YOU DID HURT ME."
6.2K views · viral factor x2.66
Giving silent treatments
6.1K views · viral factor x2.66
Do you push your partner away during conflicts, even though you want them to stay? HERE'S WHY AND WHAT YOU CAN DO TO CHANGE.
6.1K views · viral factor x2.64
If your partner shuts down or pulls away during conflicts, they're likely a 'distancer.'
5.6K views · viral factor x2.41

Niches @thesecurelove posts in

Relationships · 7 videos · 78%
Motivation & Quotes · 2 videos · 22%

Formats @thesecurelove uses

Minimal Quote Slides · 3 videos · 33%
Story in slideshow · 2 videos · 22%
Wrapped Paper Slides · 1 video · 11%

@thesecurelove by the numbers

The library has 9 viral TikToks from @thesecurelove, with 281K views in all. The median video has 7.6K views, and the most viral reached a viral factor of x67.8. The biggest niche is Relationships, with 7 videos. Viral factor compares a video's views with its account's usual views: x10 means ten times the views that creator normally gets.

Viral videos in the library: 9
Platform: TikTok only
Total views: 281K (281,311)
Median views per video: 7.6K
Median viral factor: x3.28
Highest viral factor: x67.8

These figures cover all 9 videos in this list, not only the cards above.

Questions about @thesecurelove

What video formats does @thesecurelove use?

In @thesecurelove's videos in the library, the most used formats are Minimal Quote Slides (3 videos), Story in slideshow (2) and Wrapped Paper Slides (1).

Which @thesecurelove hooks went most viral?

The most viral hook in @thesecurelove's videos in the library is “obsessed” (viral factor x67.8, 157K views), followed by “Do you go after emotionally unavailable people? = You're chasing the feeling of being chosen, over your need…” (x29.0). Every hook on this page links to its video.

How many views do @thesecurelove's videos get?

Across 9 videos, the median is 7.6K views, and together they have 281K views. The median viral factor is x3.28: the typical video got 3.28 times its creator's usual views.