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@theartofhealingbytrevor: 23 viral TikToks

23 viral TikToks by @theartofhealingbytrevor (best x779), with each video's hook, views and viral factor. See which ideas worked.

A woman with blonde hair is looking at the camera. She is wearing a light beige t-shirt and is holding a black and yellow object. There is a text overlay above the woman's head.

x154

238,009 views

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A man with light skin and blonde hair is looking directly at the camera in a well-lit interior setting. The man is wearing a light green t-shirt and has a light brown substance in his hand, with his left hand holding the material. He's smiling slightly. Behind him, the background wall displays framed artwork and various other pictures. Overlaying the image is white text at the bottom stating, 'When I was anxiously attached in dating'.

x130

201,346 views

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A man with blonde hair is speaking directly to the camera. He's wearing a green t-shirt against a backdrop with framed pictures. In the foreground, there's a small wooden stand with three clear tubes filled with a beige liquid.

x11.0

17,012 views

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A man in a green shirt stands in front of a wall with framed pictures. He is holding a stand with five glass tubes. The text overlay reads, "Here are five boundaries."

x71.5

110,408 views

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A medium shot features a man speaking, with a blue shirt and blond hair with a slight wave. The background includes a collection of framed artwork, mostly muted tones, and soft lighting. Text overlayed on the bottom of the image states a message.

x10.1

15,527 views

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A woman with long blonde hair is smiling, looking towards the left. The text overlay is a white box with the words 'Who I Become in a New Relationship', with a smaller text beneath that reads 'so this is the new place'. The background is a slightly blurred, suggesting indoors.

x26.7

30,019 views

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The cover image shows a man with short, blond hair looking towards the left with a questioning expression. He's wearing a dark blue t-shirt. Below him, a black microphone is visible. White text overlayed on the image says 'WHEN YOU THINK OF YOUR EX'. The background is slightly blurred and dark.

x9.39

10,575 views

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A medium shot shows a man with light skin and blonde hair looking directly at the camera. He is wearing a green shirt. The background is a neutral, slightly blurred space.

x90.3

101,702 views

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A man with fair skin, wearing a green shirt and white earbuds, points upwards with his right index finger. Text overlays the image, reading "and this is the #1 tool".

x101

112,580 views

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The image features a light brown background with white text overlaid. The text reads '6 boundaries to set with yourself if you have an anxious attachment style'. In the bottom-right corner, there's a minimalist arrow icon pointing to the right. The bottom left corner has the text '@theartofhealingbytrevor' in a smaller font.

x23.1

27,955 views

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A medium shot features a fair-skinned man with short, light brown hair and blue eyes. He's wearing a black and white plaid shirt. Overlaid at the bottom is white text.

x154

213,676 views

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A couple stands embracing in front of lush green tropical plants. A text overlay provides context.

x176

289,240 views

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A man with blond hair, wearing a striped shirt, is smiling and gesturing with his hands. White text is overlaid at the bottom of the screen.

x13.1

21,397 views

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Plain, light-colored background with text that shares advice on relationship topics. The text is in different shades of gray, with some words highlighted in bold for emphasis. The overall design is clean and simple, drawing attention to the message.

x18.5

32,398 views

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A man with blonde hair wears a black hoodie and speaks directly to the camera against a neutral background. Text overlayed on the image reads 'INSECURE RESPONSE: You never'.

x2.97

5,204 views

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A square image with a light brown background. Text is overlaid in white and dark grey, formatted in a clean, sans-serif font. The image features a question at the top and an overthinking-related statement at the center, alongside a right-directional arrow and some text in the bottom left corner.

x4.06

7,109 views

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A vertical image with a light brown background features centered, bold black text. The text is in a stacked format, posing a question, followed by two declarative statements. Below the last statement, branding text and a small arrow are visible.

x11.4

21,233 views

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The image is a minimalist graphic with a white background. Centered on the image is text in a bold, sans-serif font. The text is in multiple lines, with the main title in a darker tone, and the rest in a lighter shade of gray. At the bottom left is a smaller text, and at the bottom right there is a horizontal line ending with an arrow. The overall composition is clean with a focus on the typography.

x12.1

22,604 views

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A man with light hair and a light olive green t-shirt with the words "INSECURE RESPONSE: never introduce me" written on the front. He has bright blue eyes and is looking at the camera. He is slightly illuminated by light from the bulb of a desk lamp behind him to the upper left of the image.

x4.31

8,061 views

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The image is a visual breakdown of how to handle relationship communication. It uses a structured layout, with text within colored boxes, illustrating a common scenario of misinterpretation in a relationship. The top section labels phrases like 'They said' and 'You thought', leading to a 'What you did' section, followed by a better approach 'What might work better.' It's a clean, minimalist design with a modern sans-serif font against a white background. The colors and layout are designed for easy comprehension.

x24.5

45,872 views

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An image with a light brown background presents text in a clear, easily readable format. The text is divided into two sections labeled "Anxious" and "Secure," each followed by a quote. Under "Anxious," the quote reads, "Are you pulling away from me? Are we okay?" which is crossed out. Below, under "Secure," the quote states, "Hey, I've noticed we've had a little distance lately. Everything alright?" The bottom of the image includes Instagram handle text.

x371

573,572 views

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A man with short blond hair and a white shirt is holding a handful of sand, looking at the camera with a smile. The background includes indoor plants and soft lighting.

x779

1,204,293 views

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The cover image features a neutral beige background with text elements. At the top-left, it has a username and the title text is positioned in the center, with a horizontal line separating two sets of statements. The top set of text is under the heading "Anxious" and contains two questions. Below the line, under the heading "Secure", is a statement. An arrow pointing to the right side is at the bottom right of the picture.

x261

403,326 views

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Top hooks from @theartofhealingbytrevor

  1. And I'd just reply "yeah, sand in the hand"

    1.2M views · viral factor x779

  2. Anxious “Are you pulling away from me? Are we okay?” Secure “Hey, I've noticed we've had a little distance lately. Everything alright?”

    573K views · viral factor x371

  3. Anxious "Are you mad at me? What's wrong?" Secure "You seem a bit distant lately. Did something happen that we can talk about?"

    403K views · viral factor x261

  4. Day In The Life: Anxious Attachment This is a day in the life

    289K views · viral factor x176

  5. cool, pretty surface level information

    213K views · viral factor x154

  6. When He Goes Silent what’s wrong?

    238K views · viral factor x154

  7. When I was anxiously attached in dating

    201K views · viral factor x130

  8. and this is the #1 tool

    112K views · viral factor x101

  9. if you have an anxious attachment style

    101K views · viral factor x90.3

  10. Here are five boundaries

    110K views · viral factor x71.5

Niches @theartofhealingbytrevor posts in

Formats @theartofhealingbytrevor uses

@theartofhealingbytrevor by the numbers

The library has 23 viral TikToks from @theartofhealingbytrevor, with 3.7M views in all. The median video has 32K views, and the most viral reached a viral factor of x779. The biggest niche is Relationships, with 16 videos. Viral factor compares a video's views with its account's usual views: x10 means ten times the views that creator normally gets.

Viral videos in the library
23
Platform
TikTok only
Total views
3.7M (3,713,118)
Median views per video
32K
Median viral factor
x24.5
Highest viral factor
x779

These figures cover all 23 videos in this list, not only the cards above.

Questions about @theartofhealingbytrevor

What video formats does @theartofhealingbytrevor use?

In @theartofhealingbytrevor's videos in the library, the most used formats are Selfie with Background (11 videos), Minimal Quote Slides (5) and Face Close-Up (3).

Which @theartofhealingbytrevor hooks went most viral?

The most viral hook in @theartofhealingbytrevor's videos in the library is “And I'd just reply "yeah, sand in the hand"” (viral factor x779, 1.2M views), followed by “Anxious “Are you pulling away from me? Are we okay?” Secure “Hey, I've noticed we've had a little distance…” (x371). Every hook on this page links to its video.

How many views do @theartofhealingbytrevor's videos get?

Across 23 videos, the median is 32K views, and together they have 3.7M views. The median viral factor is x24.5: the typical video got 24.5 times its creator's usual views.