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Them vs Me videos for Relationships apps and brands

72 viral Them vs Me videos from the Relationships niche show what's working there, ranked by viral factor. Start with the hooks that opened them, then use them as references for Relationships apps TikTok ads, Reels and UGC briefs.

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The most viral Them vs Me videos in Relationships

Ranked by viral factor, 72 videos. Viral factor is a video's views relative to its creator's usual views: x10 means ten times what the account normally gets.

The image features two stylized pink figures standing side by side against a clean white background. Above each figure's head are thought bubbles. One bubble contains a combination of emoji depicting a person with a kiss, and the other contains a burger. The text overlay 'me vs my bestie on a double date' is at the top of the image.

x6,729

35,780,912 views

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The cover image is a vertical split screen showcasing three individuals. At the top, a smiling woman with dark hair is centered. Below, the left half features a woman with a serious expression, wearing a dress and cat-ear-like accessories. The right half displays another woman wearing glasses and a white hat, with a cow print top. Text overlays the image adding context, with a color palette that is balanced and vibrant, using warm lighting for visual interest.

x573

2,927,092 views

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The image showcases two hands clasped together, with one prominently displaying a large diamond engagement ring. Above, white text on a black background reads, 'NOW THAT'S A RING!!!!!! TEAM TRAVIS' with ring emojis. Below, another white text banner states, 'TAYLOR SWIFT IS ENGAGED'. The background is dark, drawing focus to the hands and the ring.

x463

475,851 views

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A person with blonde hair is facing away from the camera, raising both hands with jewelry on their fingers, and wearing a baseball cap and T-shirt. Text overlays read "Luxuries you don't appreciate before kids (part 2)" and "1. Wearing all your jewelry"

x380

248,924 views

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The image is a meme-style illustration. Two black silhouettes of female figures with crowns are on either side. Each silhouette is filled with various cartoon images and emojis to represent moods, with the left side containing items like a cup of coffee, books, and a crying face emoji, and the right side showing a 'Dippy' app graphic, emojis, and various food images. The text overlay across the image reads 'my two moods at 2AM:'.

x313

259,212 views

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The cover image features a man looking off to the side in a serious manner. There are two layers of text overlaid on the image. The background shows a colorful display of purple, blue, and green tones.

x240

1,843,750 views

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The image features a woman with long, highlighted hair, looking up and to the side with a slightly perplexed expression. The lighting is dominated by a bright, reddish-pink hue across the scene, emphasizing the woman's face and the surrounding space. Text overlays indicate a scenario where the woman is hesitant to 'open up'. The composition is simple, focusing primarily on the woman's face and expressive features.

x63.2

70,779 views

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A young woman is centered in the frame, her expression serious as she looks towards the camera. Above her head, a rectangular graphic displays a cartoon depiction of a man and the word 'Father' in a bold font. The color scheme is simple with primary colors.

x48.6

51,537 views

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The cover image is a split composition. The upper section shows two men standing together outdoors, one older and one younger. Below, two smaller portraits of the men are displayed, showing close-up views of their faces. The men in the top image are standing in front of a garden or park-like setting with foliage and a pathway. The men are both wearing glasses and smiling. The bottom left portrait features a black-and-white photo of an older man, and the bottom right shows a younger man. The images feature text labels as well.

x28.0

35,177 views

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The cover image is divided into two parts, with a black background at the top and a meme-style illustration at the bottom. The top portion contains text: 'Bro: She understands my soul bro' followed by 'Meanwhile bro and her homescreen:'. The bottom part features illustrations of two characters, on the left a cartoon of a girl with black hair and a black choker; on the right, a male character featuring a blonde, muscular build. The overall layout is a split view, set against a stark black backdrop.

x21.4

379,854 views

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A close-up shot of a green plush frog with sad eyes and a large red mouth. The frog wears a blue shirt and sits against a blurred background of a beach scene. White text overlaid on the image states, "When you realise how lucky her bra is, because it's holding her boobs all day and you don't...."

x16.7

394,875 views

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A split image with two digitally drawn figures representing different personalities. The left side shows a figure with joyful expression and raised arm, while the right figure shows a more reserved pose.

x14.7

400,666 views

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The image features two people, likely a couple, in an intimate setting. A woman is kneeling, her hand on the man's face, with both appearing to be deep in conversation. The setting is a dimly lit, urban-looking space, with the text overlay stating '5 uncomfortable but healthy questions to ask your partner.'

x12.6

5,423 views

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The cover image is a split screen featuring one woman. On the left, the woman smiles widely with a pink gradient background behind her. On the right, the woman is also featured with a blue gradient background, wearing the same outfit but with a more serious expression and a book in her hand. Text at the top of the frame asks, "which side is dangerous?"

x12.5

221,472 views

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The image features a blurred background of a supermarket aisle with products on shelves. In the foreground, a cartoon dog (possibly Cheems meme) is depicted with a surprised or confused look. Text overlay at the image top indicates three signs of a partner being angry.

x12.1

15,664 views

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A black and white image shows a woman with blonde hair looking slightly to her right, smiling. Beside her is the profile of a man. Overlayed text is present at the bottom of the image.

x11.3

25,077 views

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An image depicting a split pathway, with a lighter-colored road diverging into two directions. On the left path, two silhouetted figures walk away from the viewer while the other road has a group of silhouetted figures walking to the right. The words "everyone else:" are overlaid at the top.

x10.4

126,019 views

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The image shows a sunset over a grassy hill. In the foreground, a knight in full armor stands with his back to the viewer, gazing at a couple walking hand-in-hand towards the horizon. The sky is filled with warm orange and yellow hues.

x9.52

101,656 views

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A young man stands in a doorway, holding out his hand towards the viewer. Text overlays are above and below him, describing comparisons related to relationships, with red flag emojis in the background.

x9.37

14,846 views

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A split image. The left side shows a black and white image of a person being choked, while the right side displays a man holding a microphone.

x8.89

71,885 views

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The cover image is a split screen. The top half features a man giving a speech while holding a microphone. Above him is overlaid text in white. The bottom half features a man looking at the camera. He has facial tattoos and is wearing a hat. He is shown inside a vehicle.

x8.80

12,915 views

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A group of women seated in front of an audience, perhaps at a fashion show. They are all dressed in semi-formal attire and appear to be engaged in conversation with each other. Text overlays are added for comedic effect.

x7.73

208,258 views

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A split-screen image features a woman on the left, smiling while holding a light purple object. She wears a yellow headband over dark hair and a lime green top. The background appears to be a turquoise-green. On the right side, a woman looks to the side with a slightly surprised expression, with a cherry-patterned hat, wire-rimmed glasses, and a black and white top. The background is pink.

x7.22

60,294 views

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The cover image is a split screen with a vertical black line separating two scenes. On the left, a woman with dark braided hair and a yellow top is shown in distress. She is looking towards the left side with her mouth open and face contorted in a frustrated expression. On the right, a man with short black hair and a blue shirt is featured. He looks at the camera with a neutral expression. Above the two images, 'How to avoid arguments in marriage' is written.

x7.11

26,777 views

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The cover image features Marge and Homer Simpson, animated characters from the Simpsons, against a gradient sky background. The text overlay 'WHO IS MORE LIKELY TO?!' is displayed in a bold, black font with a white outline, above the characters.

x6.58

753,192 views

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The cover image is split vertically, displaying two versions of the same person. On the left, the person is dressed more formally, wearing glasses glasses and a collared shirt. On the right, the person is wearing a different top. Text overlays label the different personas.

x6.56

75,418 views

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The image is split into two sections. The top section features a man speaking into a microphone, with a neutral expression. The bottom part has a man with curly hair smiling at the camera.

x6.16

54,626 views

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A picturesque scene of a couple standing on a hill overlooking a valley at sunset, with text overlayed at the top. The couple is viewed from the back, holding hands and silhouetted against the vibrant golden light. The foreground shows tall grass, and the composition is balanced and aesthetically pleasing.

x6.07

167,278 views

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The cover image is a cartoon featuring Marge and Homer Simpson from The Simpsons. They are positioned close together, with Marge on the left and Homer on the right. Above them, the text "HOW WELL DO YOU KNOW YOUR BOYFRIEND?" is displayed in a bold, black font. Below this, the subtitle "-SWEET OR SAVORY-" is in red. The background is a light blue, and small white heart shapes are scattered around the text and characters.

x6.03

451,250 views

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A split image featuring a woman on either side. The left side shows the woman looking at the camera with a serious expression and brace, with the text overlayed 'yes of course'. The right side displays a shot of the same woman with a cheerful expression and braces.

x5.99

83,570 views

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The cover image is a split-screen style, featuring two selfies of a woman. On the left, labeled "elder sister," the woman has dark hair, rosy cheeks, and is wearing a white top and a pearl necklace. She appears to be in the middle of speaking. On the right, labeled "younger sister," the woman has a light-colored sun hat with a bunny design, glasses, and a green top, and also wears a pearl necklace. She appears to be smiling and gesturing with her hands. The background for each selfie is a different color, with pink for the elder sister and blue for the younger sister.

x5.64

99,837 views

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The cover image features a cartoon depiction of Peter and Lois Griffin from Family Guy. Peter is embracing or holding Lois in a library setting. The hook text, using bold and colorful fonts, suggests the video is about a relationship quiz. The background consists of bookshelves with various books, and a wooden ladder.

x5.54

48,472 views

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Them vs Me in Relationships by the numbers

Videos
72
Total views
54,660,524
Creators
44
Median viral factor
x4.91
TikTok / Instagram
90% / 10%
Added to the library
Jan 29, 2024 to Sep 21, 2025

Top Them vs Me hooks in Relationships

The opening lines of the most viral videos in this set, as a starting point for your own.

  1. me vs my bestie on a double date

    35M views · viral factor x6,729

  2. 'your family is poor'

    2.9M views · viral factor x573

  3. NOW THAT'S A RING!!!!!! TEAM TRAVIS TAYLOR SWIFT IS ENGAGED

    475K views · viral factor x463

  4. Luxuries you don't appreciate before kids (part 2) 1. Wearing all your jewelry

    248K views · viral factor x380

  5. my two moods at 2AM:

    259K views · viral factor x313

  6. DATING AN ARIES

    1.8M views · viral factor x240

  7. Them : Why you don't open up? Me when I finally open up :

    70K views · viral factor x63.2

  8. My relatives Me

    35K views · viral factor x28.0

  9. Bro: "She understands my soul bro" Meanwhile bro and her homescreen:

    379K views · viral factor x21.4

  10. When you realise how lucky her bra is, because it's holding her boobs all day and you don't....

    394K views · viral factor x16.7

Creators making Them vs Me videos in Relationships

The accounts with the most videos in this set, with their views and best viral factor.

  1. @yoyothewitch (TikTok) · 15 videos · 3.9M views · best viral factor x573
  2. @cloudyquizzes (TikTok) · 5 videos · 3.9M views · best viral factor x6.58
  3. @zoplohalloffame (TikTok) · 4 videos · 55K views · best viral factor x3.43
  4. @blushandask (TikTok) · 3 videos · 263K views · best viral factor x3.71
  5. @qovesstudio (TikTok) · 2 videos · 2.9M views · best viral factor x4.07
  6. @workout_inspiration._ (Instagram) · 2 videos · 723K views · best viral factor x3.89
  7. @realache (TikTok) · 2 videos · 268K views · best viral factor x9.52
  8. @gospeltruthchannel36 (TikTok) · 2 videos · 98K views · best viral factor x8.89